What the Cuil?

Most Recently Published Work: Pre-ordering for my first nonfic book, Aro Eros Arrows, in print and ebook now available on Amazon and Smashwords!! Prettiful!

Released on 2/14/2018

1. What the Fuck is the Cuilverse?

2. What is Cuil Fiction?

Cuil Fiction is a (relatively) new genre that makes room for all kinds of suppressed & oppressed stories to burst forth and take form.

There’s room for the trauma of oppression to air out & be properly addressed, but this is also the genre for those who dare to dream: of futures, parallel universes, other—better—safer—weirder—more openly dangerous—worlds near & far where characters get to have agency and be fully themselves, come what may.

It’s a genre where we can break not only the fourth wall, but the 4th dimension—and still turn to mush thinking about a crush…or a squish… and spend time talking about what’s for dinner back on your home planet.

Expect #disabled #romance, & #kinky #aro #lovestories, and of course the power of #friendship & #queerplatonic partnership.

Expect Black girls who get to be princesses, & their suitors of all genders to treat them right. Expect parents who teach consent and leaders who apologize, but expect no apologism. Expect justice to be fought for & eventually served. Expect the chance to heal.

Take what you’ve come to expect & shake it right outta your head! Expect to be delighted. Expect the unexpected. That’s #CuilFiction✨

3. Introducing Cuil Press:

If you’re interested in learning how to write Cuil, you can book me here. Also check out the Cuil Press site!

4. Need A Cuil Reader?

Not sure if your diverse characters are cutouts or dynamic? Hire me to as your Sensitivity Editor. As a minority of minorities, I can certainly provide some insight into whether your story/ies will fall flat or resonate with the populations you’re writing about.

Why Choose Me?

There’s a very good chance I’m one of the oddest people you’ll ever come across. I’ve had a highly unusual life and tend to fall into the most marginalized categories of both identities and experiences.

Who Am I?

Since I appreciate full disclosure, I’m letting it all out in the open: I’m Black (with Irish and Cherokee thrown in to fuck things up further), autistic, aromantic, noetisexual, grey ace, polyamorous, Radical/Integrated Non-Monogamist, autodidact, disabled, single parent, in poverty, kinky switch/Dom/me, assigned female at birth, synesthetic (most notably visual/touch), intersex, genderqueer, Army brat, survivor of several forms of abuse, left-handed, singleish, and pansexual.

What Have I Experienced?

My disabilities and health conditions consist of but aren’t limited to: endometriosis, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder, fibromyalgia, eczema, secondary anxiety and depression. I’ve lived in severe poverty for my entire life, including prior, some recent and likely impending homelessness. I’ve had several major surgeries, survived more rapes than I can count, and narrowly escaped stalkers, domestic violence, and murderers. I’ve been writing cuil fiction, my invented intersectional queer and poly genre, for over 16 years. I’ve raised my children non-traditionally with my sister. I’m also a not-quite widow; within months of one another a former partner and a current partner died (one a queer Black woman and a queer Black man).

What Do I Know?

I attended many schools, majoring in areas as diverse as Drama, Instrumental Music, Choir, Dance, Aviation Maintenance, Teaching and Technology, Brain and Mind Studies (which includes an in-depth integrated approach to the different disciplines dealing with, well, the mind), Women Gender and Sexuality Studies, Objectivism. Of course, that’s only my education on paper; since the age of 12 or so I’ve also been a voracious self-taught student of history, sexuality, religions, cosmology, philosophy, math, technology; anything that caught my fancy. I spend the majority of my time presently engaging in fleshing out the many corners of the cuilverse (the fictional, intersectional world of my queer, polya characters), serving as Editor and Speaker for Postmodern Woman, and providing content for groups such as Integrated Non-Monogamy and a few others of intersectional focus. I’m also a Sensitivity Editor and Accountability Counselor; offering a number of courses and workshops of varying topics I both have personal and educational experience with.

4. Want to Support My Work Directly?

…and/or receive cuil and/or Postmodern perks? You can subscribe here, or sign up here for exclusive content, or just pay me here.

5. Want to Learn From Me?

Hire me to speak or lead a workshop at your university, convention, or business.

Please do note that, considering my disabilities, my parenthood, and as these times have become even more dangerous for people like me, I have access needs that will have to be discussed prior to my attendance. List of courses (including but not limited to):

*The Metanoia Package:

-Unraveling Abuse Culture

-Riel’s Sensuality and Trauma Education

-Contextual Consent

-Beyond Empathy: Developing Emotional Intelligence

*The Media Package:

-How to Write Cuil

*The Unveiling Pacakage:

-The Forgotten Queers

-Life, Liberty, and The Pursuit of Black People

-The Invisibility of Disability

*The Relationship Package:

-Aro Eros Arrows

-The Expanded Sexual Spectrum

-Integrated Non-Monogamy

-Woke Kinksters

*The Privilege Pacakage:

-Parental/Caregiver Privilege

-From Ally Inaction to Accomplice in Action

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