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The Standard of Care:
“hello, human, I care if you have a wonderful time. I will respect your person and your needs. I will not use you as just a masturbatory tool, even if we play at doing that. I will make sure you want to do what we’re doing, that you continue to want to do so as we’re doing it, and will provide any necessary aftercare if I am able and if you need it. I will not manipulate you into these acts, I will not shame you for them afterward, I will pay enough attention to you that I can read your yeses and maybes and nos, even if they’re not verbal. I will make an effort to please you, not to score points or to maintain some image, but because your pleasure matters and because your needs and desires are unique. You deserve to be treated with dignity, even if this moment is as long as we know one another.”
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