The Thing All Women Do That You Don’t Know About | Drifting Through My Open Mind

I know, I know. Sporadic posting. I have much fewer spoons so please have mercy. I am still working on articles for other magazines and blogs. Also…I started writing In the Time of Toba: Lilith. I think you’ll like it. Anyway, this article is way too important to pass up. It’s not very inclusive of […]

Why Do So Many Incompetent Men Become Leaders?

Oh, would you look at that! Another way in which I beat the curve. The most effective groups in the cuilverse are led by women and/or those who are humble and competent rather than narcissistic and ignorantly confident. “In sum, there is no denying that women’s path to leadership positions is paved with many barriers […]

5 Things I Learned Committing A Campus Sexual Assault | Cracked.com

I’m glad they’re writing about this. We need better solutions and not empty rhetoric or punishment. Even as a survivor of more instances than I can remember I can understand this is so much more conplex and that the solution needs to dig deeper. It’s easy to be reactionary. But we won’t put a stop […]

5 Signs You’re Trapped In An Irrational Relationship (And How To Fix It)

They wanted the effect without the right cause. The Law Of Causality Unhappiness is the result of believing you deserve something you have not earned. Life is much simpler than most people want you to believe. You do x and you get y. That’s it. It’s a simple math equation. The problem is the average […]

Sex, Love, and BDSM; Dating notes from an Englishman in New York: On the subject of labels

Human first! As I’ve always said! And even thoughmany of my characters are something other than human it still stands that none of their traits, labels, or aspects are bigger than their core (their lovely electron-like humanity). A label may tell you where someone stands or where they’ve been but it will never dictate where […]