My Chronic Pain – “The other side of the opioid epidemic — we’re people in severe pain”

I think a lot of overdoses are accidental; when you’ve have no help and can only access certain things, you do the best you can with what you have. If needs were actually met (esp. physical, mental, and emotional; which are often the most distorted and forgotten), what gets labeled addiction will occur in lesser […]

Past Due Updates & C & S #73: Jeanne Delan

First off, fuck Columbus! Happy Indigenous People’s Day! Good. That’s out of the way. Now… After years of struggle, worsening health, and homelessness, I’m happy to say me and the kiddos finally have a stable home on the East Coast! And even better, my family also has a home now on the West Coast. We […]

“Give Me More Fantastic, Wonderful Jamais Vu”

I know it’s been a while, dears. But you know me. Life continues to hand me lemons.  But…hee hee hee. The cuilverse is growing! Cuil’s Sinister Press is gearing up to launch officially next year. Postmodern Woman is also undergoing transformation. And while you can mainly find my work specifically here, you can see the […]

I Let My Husband Rape Me, and Here’s Why…

Same shit I’ve been saying. #abuseculture. Why is that so hard to get? Why didn’t she leave? Because everyone is complicit. Because abusers are taken care of and supported in ways their victims aren’t. The world has always been backwards and upside down to me. Part of that is my neurodivergence, but it’s also because […]

The Thing All Women Do That You Don’t Know About | Drifting Through My Open Mind

I know, I know. Sporadic posting. I have much fewer spoons so please have mercy. I am still working on articles for other magazines and blogs. Also…I started writing In the Time of Toba: Lilith. I think you’ll like it. Anyway, this article is way too important to pass up. It’s not very inclusive of […]

Unfenced Relationships – Facilitated by Sex 3.0!

As an #aromantic who grew up #poly and a longtime author of #polyfiction, I love that someone else gets this! It’s everything I’ve been thinking and writing about since I was a little kid. I now have a word to describe the way I’ve done relationships in my life and how I’ve written them in […]