What’s So Wrong With “Opening Up”? “The non-monogamous community is positively flooded with the stories of those who have transitioned into it from a previously monogamous life. So many of the questions and answers revolve around addressing couples who have been together for a while, who might be bored or might trust one another enough […]
Need a different of “dating” site? Check out The Metanoiac Portal’s space named after the book, #AroErosArrows! The Standard of Care: “hello, human, I care if you have a wonderful time. I will respect your person and your needs. I will not use you as just a masturbatory tool, even if we play at doing […]
I offer several types trauma-informed services via Postmodern Woman, yet as far as I know, I am the ONLY sex educator who affirms aromanticism and asexuality, who knows of sexual trauma from formal education AND personal experience, and who IS multiply marginalized in ways that are way too often left out of the healing discourse. […]
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The #endo pain is so bad rn that I’m just constantly nauseous & faint. Gotta get my insurance back asap. Need that surgery this year; nothing will stop me. But…I AM GOING TO ClexaCon!!!!!!!!!!!!
Time for an update!!! So, the good news: You may remember I was selected to present How to Write Cuil at ClexaCon in early April. I was able to raise enough funds to book a room for myself and my disability assistant person thing, lol. But I still need to purchase my flight tickets (around […]
I think a lot of overdoses are accidental; when you’ve have no help and can only access certain things, you do the best you can with what you have. If needs were actually met (esp. physical, mental, and emotional; which are often the most distorted and forgotten), what gets labeled addiction will occur in lesser […]